How To Recognize Signs Of Child Abuse

Recognizing child abuse neglect states that:

If you want to help an abused or neglected children, then you have to know what to look for.The following below shows the signs to look for, but don't look for just these signs, because there are plenty more signs. The presence of a single sign does not prove child abuse is occurring in a family, but looking deeper into the situation may be warranted when these signs appear repeatedly or in combination.

The Child:

• Shows sudden changes in behavior or school performance
• Has learning problems (or difficulty concentrating) that cannot be attributed to specific physical or psychological causes
• Is always watchful, as though preparing for something bad to happen
• Comes to school or other activities early, stays late, and does not want to go home

The Parent:

• Shows little concern for the child
• Sees the child as entirely bad, or worthless.
• Demands a level of physical or academic performance the child cannot achieve
• Looks primarily to the child for care, attention, and satisfaction of emotional needs

Signs that recognizes sexual abuse are when the child:

• Has difficulty walking or sitting
• Reports nightmares or bed wetting
• Demonstrates bizarre, sophisticated, or unusual sexual knowledge or behavior
• Becomes pregnant or contracts a venereal disease, particularly if under age 14
• Reports sexual abuse by a parent or another adult caregiver

Signs of physical abuse are when the child:

Has injuries such as burns, bruises, etc. and the child cannot explain where they got it.

Has marks after returns from being absent from school.

Shrinks at the approach of adults

Signs of neglect are when the child:

Is absent from school often.

Begs or steals food or money

Abuses alcohol or other drugs 

Signs of Emotional Maltreatment are when the child:

Shows a drastic change in emotions and reactions.

Has thoughts/attempted suicide

Reports a lack of attachment to the parent

These signs are not all the signs to look for... If you suspect a child is being a victim of abuse the following sources are a few ways to report:

• DSHS Children's Adminstration
• Child Welfare
• Dream Catchers for Abused Children
• And of course  911.
• Under our rainbow

A bruised child, possibly under the age of one. Available at:
http://www.underourrainbow.org/Content/113.htm

Its everywhere!

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As the topic for this week.... Abuse is ranged in different forms, ways, sizes,and amounts. It can also vary from different ages.

My main focus is child abuse; as you can see.

Later on I will briefly introduce similar issuse leading up to different ages.

I was surfing the web, to find something intriguing to bring up for a discussion, when I found myself looking at news reports.

The following was found in the Chicago Tribune; this article is on of the many that slightly disturbed me:

"An Iowa man accused of sexually abusing three of his nine children. He was captured in Chicago. The man was taken into custody Thursday morning at an apartment complex where authorities believed his mother lives. The man was thirty-six years old! Officials searched an apartment and learned the man fled out a back door. Officers found him hiding under a stairwell.The man faces eight counts of sexual abuse. His wife, who was arrested in Des Moines on Monday, faces three counts of neglect. The Associated Press is not using the couple's names to protect the privacy of the children."

So, knowing it's anywhere and everywhere, and could be happening right here and now, how does it make you feel? Sick, angry, dissapointed, disgusting? You not alone, thats why this blog is here.

 Anyway, to my point.... This shouldn't be surprising to anyone viewing, but yet it still takes us by surprise.

I ask myself questions all the time like, why children have to suffer, along with our young adults and our elders. Even the disabled.... The world is cruel, and life sometime sucks, and we think that theres nothing to do

WRONG! Theres plenty to do.... Abused childern, young adults, physically disabled, and our elders think that there is no way out of abuse.

That there is nowhere to turn but down. That there is no hope, no prayer, no nothing to get them through.... don't let another life end, another heart fail, another inoccent life vanish from our touch.

Everyone want to be a hero, right? Its almost everyones dream.... well it can be! Think back to the beginning of this post. Think about those three children and how they will have to live on in pain knowing that their Father abused them...

Think about if it were you in there position....

I don't know if the kids were treated correctly after they were found, or that they are safe now, or if they are even still being abused by whoever the are with now... I don't know these things for a fact... But what if were you, and what if there was no one there for you... I know I would be in a place where there is no light, no place for returning, a place where guilt is playing tricks on my mind, feeling ripped up and worthless for the rest of my life...

Think about little kids, from the ages five and up maybe younger feeling the same way you and I feel, except their the victims and we can only imagine.... The pain, the misery. Deep internal wounds that can never be healed. Broken hearts that will never be whole. Trust that is blown away in the wind.

Although everything won't be back to the way it was.... Everyone can try. Whether is a friend, family member, a neighbor, and friend of a friend... Show that person that you care.... Be that person's hero!

I don't want to say too much.... Until my next post.

Why Child Abused Begins

 Basically stating that abuse is abuse. Stop making excuses for it or about it.

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 Hi again! Before I get to the actual point of this post there is something I forgot to add on my last post. I am going to try my hardest to get a new post on here every week. 


  Also every week I'm going to have something called,"A Ruined Life". Its going to be a segment about a child or young adult life that is/will be ruined from abuse. This segment will include a picture and a few sentences explaining. 


  Now with that said lets get down to business.


  As you all know, or should all know, there are multiple reasons child abuse or abuse in general starts.


  Abuse can start, because of anger issues, stress, going through a divorce, work problems, maybe the abuser was a victim of abuse, or maybe grew up around someone being abused. Everyone has their reasons.


   Its not right, I know, but people do it, and children have to suffer for whatever reason it may be.


   The abuser  WILL say sorry, but they never are, and anyone could be an abuser and not even know it. Abusing comes it all sorts of forms from mental, physical, emotional, a mixture.

Even in music, child abuse is a topic.  For example, Martina McBride states in her song, "Concrete Angel,"
"A statue stands in a shaded place
An angel girl with an upturned faceA name is written on a polished rock
A broken heart that the world forgot.”    

      

    Being a victim of abuse is tough to deal with, and for those who don't know what its like, don't say you do. Until you have been hit, raped, your emotions torn apart, or your mind messed around; you haven't experinced nothing.


    Now I'm not say I have or haven't been through this, and I'm not saying I know the feeling, but I've been told the stories, I've helped share some of their pain, but from other peoples words and wishes, don't say you know what it feels like or say that you have it bad.

    This shows all types cause that lead up to suicide, and abuse is one of them.


     Again more post soon! Comment if you have questions or something you want to share or add.

Welcome!

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Hello and thank you for following. I'm a freshman in high school. I'm in the Early College Program. The idea for this blog is important to me, because I can learn about/from your opinions and comments. I have three younger sisters and I don't know what I would do IF this happened to them. 


This way you and I can learn different signs that signal abuse. This blog will help everyone to be able to speak out with their thoughts and comments about child abuse. It is also a place to speak up and be a voice for the kids who are too scared to talk. 


Another reason why I have chosen this topic is because the thought of children being abused is completely and utterly insufferable. It get very so aggravated when other kids who have never been physically, mentally, sexually, or emotionally abused a day in their life; make jokes about child abuse or laugh at it.

Did you know that more than five children die everyday from being abused? Approximately eighty percent of children that die from abuse are under the age of four. 


Think about if it was your sibling,  a child of yours, or even if it is just an innocent baby that cannot defend itself in the least. Think how bad it must be for them to live with that for the rest of their lives. Think of how they feel or how horrible their daily life may be. Can you imagine it? 


It is up to each of us to make a difference and STOP the violence against children of all ages.  


So please join me and others in the fight! 


I know that if we join forces we can make a difference in these children’s lives and make it a safer place for them to live.